Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Confessions of a Serial Dater

Don't...

Refer to yourself as the state in which you are from.
"Sup? My name is Kevin but you can just call me Utah"

Talk about future dates when you've been with the person no more than eight minutes. 
"You've never been snowboarding?  You will love it once I teach you how to ride"

Successfully suck at not taking hints that the other person is clearly not interested.  

Find your beer goggles after two drinks.

Attempt to tie a knot with your cherry stem...and fail. 

Wear a faux letterman's jacket.
"Just to clarify, you aren't still in high school are you?"

Tell your date all the creeping you did prior to meeting them.  They don't need to know you have their life somewhat pegged out based on your Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. 

Pretend to be best friends with the workers and talk to them like a complete tool and a half. 
"Thanks bro, you boss man!"

Consume the conversation with "me, me, me" unless you want to kiss your chances of a second date out the door. 


Saturday, January 4, 2014

Why Mark Cuban is Going to be My Friend


30 minutes have gone by and all I’ve been doing is listening to Beethoven’s top hits on my phone; over and over and over again.  I don't mind expanding my horizons and listening to something other than "Today's Hits" but after 5 minutes of violins and pianos, it becomes slightly painful and annoying. 

I received an email last night saying that my 9:05am flight this morning was cancelled.  After a curse word was said and my hands shot up to my head, I pouted like a little girl who didn’t get a puppy for Christmas.

Did I mention I gave up swearing for 2014?  

After numerous attempts at calling Orbitz and Frontier and getting a busy tone or a voice recording telling me that they are "experiencing a high volume of calls due to storms and cancellations", I gave up and went to bed.  

Back at it this morning and I was welcomed with the above-mentioned tunes.  With my combined love for the show Shark Tank and being put on hold for an extended period of time while unwillingly making me want to chuck my phone across the room, it dawned on me: wouldn't it be much more pleasant if instead of listening to elevator music and advertisements while being put on hold, it was nothing?  And then once the person on the other side was ready, we knew by our phones vibrating or giving a couple short beeps or rings? 

I think I'll fly with the idea. Oh, wait, I DON'T HAVE A PLANE TICKET!



Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Twenty-Fourteen

2014 

More...

Writing //  I want to connect more words together these next 365 days; clicking "Publish" more often whether it be a lengthy post or one that is short and sweet and sprinkled with a quote off Pinterest.  I will challenge myself to dig deeper, think harder, reach further in hopes of making more connections with my readers.

Faith //  Gone are the days of a "Sunday only" faith.  I will take my relationship with God beyond the walls of my church on Sunday mornings and carry it throughout all areas of my life.

Jumping //  I'm going to jump more.  Jump into new hobbies, adventures, friendships, relationships.  I will take risks while jumping into the unknowns and uncertainties but won't regret my decisions when I land softly and firmly on both feet.

Carrie //  More me, less you.  2013 showed me glimpses of the woman I am meant to be and 2014 will continue to show me more. I'm not going to listen to you tell me what brands I should dress myself in, when I can consider myself "successful" and how I should order my Lattes.  I'm closing my eyes when you point out my flaws and keeping my mouth closed when I want to trigger back.  You, society, are so 2013.

Giving //   Time, help, money, talents, knowledge, advice.  All of it. 

Reading //  I will open a book before bed instead of Apps.  I want to read about everything from adventure to travel, love to friendships, heath to fitness.  Any book recommendations?

 
What will you be doing more of in 2014?



Wednesday, December 18, 2013

2013 Christmas Letter


I've been putting off this "letter" for some time now as it hasn't felt like Santa Claus is coming to town next week.  With temps in the mid-60's and snowflakes few and far between, can you blame me?  Christmas music plays in my car all while the windows are rolled down and the sun beams in. This post has been sitting on my to-do list much too long so without further ado, here is a reflection of my life in 2013! 

January

Mel came to visit for two reasons: New Years Eve and to see if she could join me in saying bye-bye to her Minnesota address and hello to a Denver one.  A group of us got a hotel room downtown for NYE and had a, how do I put this, “eventful” time ringing in the new year.  Favorite thing from this month?  The burger and fries purchased January 1st.  You do the math…



February

My mom came to visit a couple days before my birthday and I was more than ready to have some mother-daughter time.  Unfortunately, a blizzard blew in and her trip was cut short.  We both were bummed but came to the realization that 24 hours together is better than 0!  We didn't get to do as many things as originally planned but a Target run was made, our nails were did, and a birthday dinner was enjoyed with my girlfriends! 


 

March

I went home for a long weekend to attend the Minnesota State High School boys state hockey tournament. While there, I was reminded of what I didn’t miss: snow, wind, ice.  Safe to say that Denver has made me a “softie” towards this trio.  It was a great trip back and was nice to be with family and also meet up with some of my friends that live in the cities. 



April

I ran the Platte River half marathon, making it my third 13.1-mile race.  The race started in Littleton and ended in downtown Denver.  It was my first running event since moving to Colorado and it was evident when the terrain was up and down, up and down, up and down.  A little different than running back in Minnesota which is flat and flat, flat and flat, flat and flat.  


May

I’ve always loved surprises but this one has to take the prize.  I flew home to not only make my mom scream and cry and yell in Tutti Frutti (after seeing me walk through the door) but also to throw her a birthday party without her knowing.  It was a busy weekend but one full of laughter, hugs, past memories being recalled and races being finished at the Fargo Marathon!  Soon after my return to Denver, I ran BolderBoulder, a 10k race in Boulder, Colorado.  Side comment: You know you're in Boulder when people are sitting on their front lawn peeling vegetables and puffing the magic dragon.






June

The whole Stav clan traveled to San Diego for our second family reunion.  Activities included SeaWorld, Legoland, SD Zoo, Sea Port Village, and my favorite, the Embassy Suites happy hour.  It was a trip where the hashtag #stavdiego was born, happy hour meant a blurry dinner (it was ONE time!), I introduced my nephew to Napoleon Dynamite, and our last dinner was at Kansas City Barbeque where a scene from Top Gun was filmed.  




July

My favorite month thanks to my favorite holiday – the fourth of July!  I spent the week back in Minnesota at our lake cabin with family and friends (Taylor came along, too!).  The weather was perfect and I enjoyed showing her that our state can be beautiful and warm and have color other than white.  I think I really sealed the deal with her after we finished off a plate of Macho Nachos from Zorbaz.  Zhe waz zold!  





August

After weeks of going back and forth on whether to choose money and job security over happiness, I took a leap of faith and put my two weeks in as Office Manager at Team Speed.  Soon after, I took a paraprofessional position in 4th and 5th grade at an elementary school only minutes from my house.  If being around kids all day wasn't enough, I began nannying a nine year old four days a week.  My days are long – alarm goes off at 5:30am and I don't get home till after 7pm – but I can confidently say that I love what I do and wouldn’t want to be employed by anyone else!  At the end of the month, I accepted a challenge and hiked the Manitou Springs Incline under 50 minutes! 



September

Another hashtag was born this month: #slotsandshots2013.  Eight girls, including myself, ventured to Vegas over the long holiday weekend.  We walked the strip, sipped overly priced fruity drinks by the pool, pigged out on Dominos at 3am, pulled all nighters, and got VIP service all three nights.  




October

Another month, another half marathon.  I always joke that people should be happy I’m addicted to running rather than that “certain plant” that is legal in this state.  Right?  I ran the Rock-n-Roll Denver half marathon and got a personal PR (personal record)!  What made this race so special was my friend Ali came to Denver solely to run this race – her first half marathon, too!  We were “long-distance” training partners as she lives in Omaha, so crossing that finish line meant that much more for the both of us.







November

I took two trips this month, the first being to Vancouver, WA to spend time with family, including my mom, brother Chris, and nephew Carter who flew in from Minnesota.  I ate too much of my grandmas coffee cake, laughed till I snorted with my aunt and mom after one or three cups of Fulton's Harvest Pumpkin Pie liquor, hiked Beacon Rock, and celebrated my cousins sons 1st birthday party!  Next up was a weekend in Winter Park with a group of girlfriends.  I felt like I was in a movie for 3 days -we stayed in a log cabin nestled in the mountains, drank in the hot tub while the snow fell, started each morning nestled under covers while sipping coffee, and a number of other things that make me want to hop in the car and travel west.  









December

For Koda’s Christmas present, I took her to the performance of The Nutcracker put on by Colorado Ballet.  It was a wonderful show but we both agreed that boys should not be able to wear tights!  She had a sparkle in her eye the entire time which made my grin an even bigger one!  This Friday I will be flying back home for two weeks and am beyond excited for no work and all play (and sleep!). 



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Slowing down to reflect back on 2013 has reminded me that I am a lucky lady who is grateful for all I have experienced this year - the trips, the challenges, the friends I've crossed paths with, new job opportunities and the race medals that have been added to my collection.  

This holiday season, I dare you to stare and listen.  Gaze in amazement at the sights and sounds around you; the people, the food, the conversation that you find yourself wrapped up in.  The bells that ring outside store doors, the soft twinkle of lights, the music that you can't stop humming along to. 

I wish you all a bountiful amount of blessings this season!  Merry Christmas!  




Friday, November 29, 2013

The Best Hangover

I remember my first hangover.  My head felt like it was on a continuous turn-table, spinning round and round and the song never seemed to stop.  I had no appetite other than gallons of water and oddly enough...pineapple.

But today I woke up with a different and more pleasant one.  My head feels clear and my appetite is as usual.  It's a hangover from a day and night that was filled with friends who opened their home, conversations with strangers that left me comforted, and food that tested my portion control self-control.

I had been dreading Thanksgiving since the day I knew I wasn't going to be spending it with family, something I had done for twenty-three years.  So when the family I nanny for invited me to their dinner, I immediately accepted the invite and started searching for a side dish I could bring.

I took part in my own Turkey Trot soon after waking up.  The plus side of running by yourself?  Guaranteed first place.  Wait...or last place?  Either way, it was refreshing and exhilarating and exactly what I needed to start my day.


Next up: Operation Fruit Salad.


Beautiful looking and even better tasting.  Recipe soon to follow!  After a shower and a curling iron to the hair, it was time to head out for dinner.


I asked K if there was another Carrie coming since she put my last initial...


Frosting on our noses and smiles on our faces!  Love this little girl. 

I learned something new this Thanksgiving.  It's not about who you spend the day with, family or friends or strangers, it's that you spend it with someone.  It's gathering around a table not only sharing food but stories and laughs and love.  It's about accepting that you may not be where you ultimately want (for me...home) but being completely present in where you are.  

Wishing you all a hangover as good as mine!